My brain is swirling, turning, and murmuring at an even higher rate than usual which is saying something. As a wife, mother, and home educator, my brain is often full, but for some reason, I just can’t get the thing to shut up lately. I need somewhere to dump some of it and the blog is that place today. Bear with me.
- I hate cancer. Three local friends are battling it and watching them through it all has a way of making “important” things in my life seem stupid. Yes, I have little irritations and stuff, but I’ve been thinking about perspective and the attitude we have in life makes a HUGE difference. Mulling on this constantly and praying hard for these precious people.
- Spring hasn’t quite sprung here in the Upper Midwest, but it’s attempting too. I can’t tell you how excited this makes me as a mom and home educator. The children are outdoors! Hallelujah.
- I love writing and would like to publish my writing some day. Don’t you love how romantic that sounds? Do you know how unromantic the reality of this is? It’s extremely hard work. And that’s just the writing. I’m just barely getting my feet wet and it’s been a good, humbling process of growing for me. Also anything, even good things can become all-consuming. Thinking on how to balance my life as a wife, mom, home educator, and woman with my writing has been interesting. Also see Number #1 on this list. What truly matters in life?
- Our formal learning year is slowly coming to a close as we are in our third Term. We plan three Terms a year of 12 weeks each. I’ve learned so much this year and am looking forward to learning more and growing with my children. This has been a pretty good year for us, but I have some tweaks and things to research over our summer break. I’m so excited to attend a Charlotte Mason retreat with my oldest daughter this summer.
- I’m someone who can easy feel claustrophobic. That’s why I’m married and have six children. It’s been really interesting to attempt to stretch myself and grow in this area. I’ve been struggling with the balance between relationships with God, my family, and others with the time to recharge. Again ,back to that Number #1 on this list. Ahhhh. This pressure is good for me. Sanctification at it’s finest.
- We have a long drive to civilization from Hearth Ridge. I’ve been enjoying various podcasts. Do you listen to any favorites? I’m especially enjoying What Should I Read Next? I have a few others to try out soon.
- I’m extremely thankful for the surge in the last couple of years of Charlotte Mason community support online and retreats. However, lately, I’ve been feeling a little overwhelmed by the amount of opinions, voices, and thoughts out there. I really love those that have finished out this journey in some way and so I’ve kind of pulled back to just focusing on those like Karen and Nancy. This doesn’t mean I don’t love hearing about CM home educating, no not at all, but at some point I have to just walk out the journey in my own home. Stop planning and absorbing and actually walk it out faithfully in small steps daily here. As I go, I can learn more, grow, and tweak it for my family. My prayer is that I be found faithful in this path we have chosen.
- I tend to read and eat emotionally when I’m drained. I’m really trying hard not to just pick up junk for my mind and body and it’s very hard to change bad habits. My book stack is HUGE, but I think I’m doing better finding light things to read that aren’t completely formulatic. I’m really looking forward to getting outside more for my long walks.
- I’m looking forward to a tentatively planned trip with my husband for our 15th anniversary this fall. I’ll share more as plans are firmed up.
- I was looking over my massive stack of journals and just amazed at how blessed I am. I really want to make an effort of intense, soul-deep gratitude and contentment. I need to lay aside my whiny irritations and thank God for His unbelievable faithfulness. Yes, I believe these are choices I make daily. Is my life perfect and carefree? Of course not. But it was never promised to be. However, in everything and through everything, God is WITH me and that I can never express enough gratitude.
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“I’m extremely thankful for the surge in the last couple of years of Charlotte Mason community support online and retreats. However, lately, I’ve been feeling a little overwhelmed by the amount of opinions, voices, and thoughts out there. I really love those that have finished out this journey in some way and so I’ve kind of pulled back to just focusing on those like Karen and Nancy. This doesn’t mean I don’t love hearing about CM home educating, no not at all, but at some point I have to just walk out the journey in my own home. Stop planning and absorbing and actually walk it out faithfully in small steps daily here. As I go, I can learn more, grow, and tweak it for my family. My prayer is that I be found faithful in this path we have chosen.” << I feel the same way, Amy. I love reading about educational philosophy, discussing it with others, and thinking through the principles and practices I aim to cultivate in my home.
I am not interested in taking sides or sitting in judgment — I am interested in being as faithful as I can be to the children in my care, living it out in the day to day. I am grateful to social media because it is such an encouragement to me on this path and because I come away so often inspired and with a broader perspective. But it definitely needs to be balanced by keeping my eyes on my own work. I pray I am never a discouragement to others and want all I do to be for the glory of God and the benefit of my friends and family. Just wanted to say I am thankful for your thoughts and for what you share here. ❤
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Celeste – yes and amen!!! You are a super encouragement to me, Celeste. (((HUGS))) Thank you for your kind words. Amy
Oh Amy! Yes, Karen and Nancy are such encouragements without becoming taskmasters. There is much freedom in their sharing–much encouraging others to flesh it out uniquely in their homes. Having graduated 3 kids so far is also helpful–I’m not as scared of ruining them. Having my middle daughter with learning disabilities has taught me that God’s ways are even at times different than our dear Charlotte Mason but knowing her principles undergirds everything I do. I’ve started dabbling in some “school” with my youngest. It’s a strange season that I’m in: courtships and counting, Alzheimers and ABCs, late night heart to hearts and aching joints in the morning…it’s all a beautiful journey. Half way done with Stillmeadow Calendar and it’s been such a refreshing and soothing read. Thank you for suggesting it. Your blog is like a sweet visit. Thanks for writing! ❤️ Betty
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Thank you, Betty, and yes, so true. I love what you shared! 💜
I also have two people close to me battling cancer, like you, that has given me perspective.
This was a great post, I’m learning from it.
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Silvia, my heart has been so heavy over these cancer battles. 😞💜❤️💜 Hugs to you.